Tommy Lee has been married four times: to Elaine Starchuk, Heather Locklear, Pamela Anderson and Brittany Furlan. Beyond those marriages, some outlets have reported or speculated about other relationships, but the available record does not verify a definitive list of 15 women. Nor is there reliable evidence that five named women have said they would reject him.
Tommy Lee’s four marriages
Us Weekly lists four marriages in Lee’s public relationship history. The dates below are the dates reported by that outlet; they establish marriages, not a complete account of every relationship. Us Weekly’s relationship timeline
| Spouse | Dates reported | What is documented |
|---|---|---|
| Elaine Starchuk | 1984–1985 | Us Weekly lists Starchuk as Lee’s first wife. |
| Heather Locklear | 1986–1993 | Us Weekly lists their marriage dates. Brittany Furlan later spoke warmly about Locklear in a Fox News interview, saying, “Heather and I are very close. She’s awesome, I love her.” That is Furlan’s description of her own relationship with Locklear, not proof of Lee’s private feelings. Fox News interview |
| Pamela Anderson | 1995–1998 | Us Weekly lists the marriage and reports that they have two sons, Brandon Thomas and Dylan Jagger. Anderson later described their beginning as “wild and crazy” and “too much for both of us,” in a 2015 People interview quoted by TIME. TIME’s account |
| Brittany Furlan | Married in 2019 | Us Weekly reports that they met online, appeared publicly together in 2017, became engaged in 2018 and married in 2019. Us Weekly’s timeline |
Other names in reports—and why they are not a verified list
A Bustle roundup mentions Mayte Garcia, Pink, Kimberly Stewart, Naomi Campbell and Tara Reid in connection with Lee, but it does not establish all of them as confirmed partners. The article describes some links as rumored or attributed reports, says Campbell’s representatives reportedly denied the pairing, and reports that Reid denied dating Lee. Bustle’s roundup
- Mayte Garcia: Bustle reports a relationship and engagement.
- Pink and Kimberly Stewart: Bustle includes them among reported or rumored links; the article does not make them equivalent to Lee’s documented marriages.
- Naomi Campbell: Bustle says representatives reportedly denied the pairing.
- Tara Reid: Bustle reports that Reid denied dating Lee.
These accounts support saying that names have been linked to Lee in media coverage, not that each was a confirmed partner. They also do not establish a total of 15. A reliable, complete count would require evidence for each alleged relationship that the available reporting does not provide.
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What is known about Anderson and Furlan’s public comments
Furlan said in a Fox News interview that she had not met Anderson and hoped they might become friends. In a separate January 2023 appearance on The Howard Stern Show, Anderson spoke supportively of Lee and Furlan: “He’s married and happy, and she’s good to him and I totally support that and think that’s great,” according to Us Weekly. Those comments come from different moments; they should not be treated as evidence of a current relationship between the women. Us Weekly’s report on Anderson’s comment
Independent reader supportYour contribution helps us test, update, and keep practical guides available for everyone.Did five women say they would reject Tommy Lee?
No reliable, attributable statements in the cited coverage show five women saying they would refuse to date Lee. A headline phrased as “5 Who Would Say No” turns a hypothetical into a claim about real people’s views. Without direct, reliable statements, naming women as rejecters would be speculation, so this article does not do so.
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