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What does Vālmīki’s Rāmāyaṇa say?
In Sundarakāṇḍa 5.21, Sītā rejects Rāvaṇa and urges him to turn his attention away from her and toward his own wives. The IIT Kanpur Valmiki Ramayanam translation renders her appeal this way: “O Ravana, it is proper for you to unite me in distress with Rama as one would unite a female elephant with the lordly elephant from which it is separated in the wilderness.” The passage makes her allegiance to Rāma, and her refusal of Rāvaṇa, clear. Read Sundarakāṇḍa 5.21 in the IIT Kanpur translation.
In the following sarga, Rāvaṇa threatens Sītā after she continues to refuse him. The IIT Kanpur page’s summary says he sets a deadline for her to accept him and threatens to kill her if she does not. Its translation of Sundarakāṇḍa 5.22.46 describes him as “overpowered with passion” as he leaves her. Read Sundarakāṇḍa 5.22 in the IIT Kanpur translation.
Did Rāvaṇa love Sītā, or did he just want her?
The passages establish desire and passion, but they also show Sītā’s explicit refusal and Rāvaṇa’s threats. They do not show a reciprocal relationship. If “love” means an ethical, mutual bond that respects the other person’s choice, the cited episode does not support calling Rāvaṇa’s pursuit of Sītā love. It is more accurate to describe it as desire joined to possessiveness and coercion. That distinction is an interpretation of the episode, not a claim that the epic supplies a modern psychological definition of love.
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Why do other versions tell the story differently?
“The Ramayana” names a diverse body of texts and retellings, not one account accepted unchanged across every tradition. A comparative study reports versions in which Sītā is Rāvaṇa’s daughter, and notes that some Southeast Asian tellings are not based on Vālmīki. Those examples are not a complete map of the tradition; they show why a claim about Sītā’s relationship to Rāvaṇa needs to name its version. See the comparative study’s abstract on Sītā in Indian and Southeast Asian tellings.
Motives can also be reinterpreted. In Many Ramayanas: The Diversity of a Narrative Tradition in South Asia, E. V. Ramasami’s modern political reading recasts Sītā’s abduction as retaliation. That is a specific reinterpretation, not the plain account of Rāvaṇa’s desire and Sītā’s refusal in the cited Vālmīki passages. Explore Many Ramayanas at the University of California Press archive.
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How to read claims about Rāvaṇa and Sītā
- Identify the telling. Check whether a claim refers to Vālmīki’s Sanskrit epic, a regional or religious retelling, or modern commentary.
- Separate motive from conduct. A version may assign Rāvaṇa a different motive, but that does not change what the cited Sundarakāṇḍa episode depicts: refusal, threats, and passion.
- Keep the Uttarakāṇḍa distinct. Its reception and contents raise separate questions. Princeton University Press describes controversy around its account of Sītā’s banishment and identifies its seven-volume translation as based on the critical edition. A 2018 study by Sally J. Sutherland Goldman examines sexual assault and sexual transgression in that book; neither source changes what the Sundarakāṇḍa passages establish about Rāvaṇa’s pursuit of Sītā. See Princeton University Press’s record for The Rāmāyaṇa of Vālmīki, Volume VII; see Goldman’s article, “Against their Will: Sexual Assault and the Uttarakāṇḍa”.
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